How do we work with children on a photoshoot?

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Introduction

There’s a saying that we all know very well… “never work with children or animals”. Well, we completely disagree – we love working with children (and animals). sisters and brother making funny facesYes of course they have their own mind and can be temperamental. And of course they just want to go off and do their own thing, which is often the opposite of what you want them to do. And yes they won’t ‘behave’. But that’s what we love about them. They have their own unique character and that’s what we strive to capture when we work with you. These are the memories you’ll cherish and want to remember forever.

There are a number of things we do to ensure you and your child, or children, have a great time, as well as making sure you have some fabulous wall art to display around your home:

Getting down to their level

In our experience the best thing we can do for a smooth family photoshoot is to get your children involved – so we do this by getting down to their level in two important ways:

  • physically – with younger children we initially get right down to their level to talk to them, so that we’re not seen as ‘the big scary stranger’,
  • emotionally – although children are ‘junior’ we don’t treat them that way – in our experience, the best thing we can do is to talk to them as though they’re at our level – we never want to ‘talk down’ to children, so we’d rather chat to them as though they’re adults. When we do this we find most will respond really well, as they rightly feel really valued and important.

We understand how the children are feelinggirl in a green dress flinging her hair

Depending on the age of the child(ren), and whether they’re tired or hungry, we find they usually go through the following phases during a photoshoot. Because we know this is their emotional journey it puts us in a good place to change what we do, depending on how everyone’s feeling at the time:

  • distant – they’ll spend the first few minutes acting shy (if they’re young) or really ‘not at all fussed’ (if they’re teenagers),
  • involved – after 5 minutes or so, their interest will have picked up, they’ll be less self conscious and they’ll be quite involved – at this stage everyone’s working well together and things are often going quite smoothly,
  • bored – however, once their interest has peaked, they’ll start to get bored – with young children this can happen quickly, after just 5-10 minutes – this is the point where parents can begin to get frustrated that their children aren’t behaving as mum and dad would like,
  • energise – this is the point where we and you need to be open to re-energising the children – more on this below,
  • keen – now re-energised, this is where we find everyone is feeling confident and happy to be in front of the camera – at this stage we can be more adventurous without anyone feeling self-conscious.

So what do we do to re-energise you and your children?

It could be any or all of these, depending on what’s required:brother and sister jumping around during a photoshoot

  • taking a complete break so that the children can run around,
  • have young children help create poses for mum and dad to do together,
  • getting the whole family to do some fun poses together – this works for all ages of children (yes, it even works for teenagers),
  • giving the camera to a younger child (yes, sometimes we do) to take a few photos of others in the family – it makes them feel super special and often sparks their interest.

Their views are really important

We almost always find that children, no matter how young or old, will have an opinion on what they wish to do in front of a camera. We always find the best way to work with children is to ask them what they’d like to do then, at some stage during the photoshoot, we indulge them and let them do exactly that. In every case where we’ve done this, they’re over the moon that someone listened to them and that they were able to have their say.

But at the end of the day

If we can’t get your lovely Small Person(s) to look exactly how you’d like them to look in your photos, then together we’ll do the best we possibly can to make sure that we really capture that sparkle in their character that truly makes them who they are – and what you love dearly about them. So even if they’re not giving you the beautiful Mickey-Mouse-smile that you’d love them to share with us, then we’ll try hard to capture an adorable mischievous look, or a part-hidden shy face behind your trouser leg, or even a beautiful sad face – all of which can look adorably cute and will form part of your lovely memories of your wonderful family for years to come.

We aim to have fungirl flicking her hair

It sounds easy to say, but it’s difficult to do – yet it’s really important.

We don’t want you just to have a set of photos – we want you to have had a good time together too.

We’ve done this many times in the past – we feel we do this well, but don’t just take our word for it – have a look at What Parents Say About Our Family Photoshoots to see some of the actual quotes of our previous customers.

Why we do this

As a parent or grandparent you’ll know how quickly time flies when you have young children in your life. It’s these memories that we aim to capture, as these are the important memories that you’ll cherish for years and decades to come and hand down to your children to one day show their children.

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Should I bring along any accessories?

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Of course!

Accessories are great, as they show off your personality and what you’re interested in. These can be the more conventional accessories that you’d wear, such as earrings, necklaces, hats and shawls, to more adventurous accessories related to your interests.

Sunglasses:

Regardless of the season, sunglasses can add that extra touch of variety. It gives you something to play with in some of your photos. Of course, they’ll also make you look extra cool.

Hats:

We LOVE it when people wear hats – they look fantastic, as they add great variety to your photos and are really eye-catching.

Jewellery:

Feel free to wear as much jewellery as you’d like – we’ve more tips about jewllery in our Advice for women on what to wear.

Other accessories:

  • clothing – shawls and scarves can be great, as you can wear them in different ways – you can also wave them around (sounds strange, but it looks great),
  • interests – accessories don’t just need to be the things you wear – they can also be objects that define your interests. In the past we’ve worked with people who’ve brought along skateboards and guitars as accessories that were important to them,
  • props – such as umbrellas, toys.

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A girl wearing a red dress in a field of yellow flowers

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During the summer months these fields of yellow rapeseed look fabulous, so for this family photoshoot we suggested a red dress would be a great colour to contrast against the field of bright yellow. Not only does it look great, but we had a lot of fun throughout this photoshoot.

What you can’t see, however, is the small stepladder that we used to get to a higher position than this young girl who was waist-high in the bright yellow flowers, which really made a difference.

A young girl walking through a cornfield

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This style of photoshoot was one of our Experience Photoshoots, where we work with a family for a longer period of time. These photoshoots work best in outdoor locations. During one of these Experience Photoshoots we try to blend into the background to capture the very real memories that happen as the family experiences part of their everyday life.

For this photoshoot we went for a walk together in a lovely green nearby cornfield. Although we will do some posed photos, many of the photos from this type of photoshoot are more likely to be candid, informal photos where the family aren’t looking onto the camera.

Having fun during an outdoor family photoshoot

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There’s no point in having a photoshoot for children unless they enjoy it – if they don’t, then they won’t look relaxed in the photos. Helping them get comfortable allows us to create some great natural expressions that are so much more natural than they’d have been otherwise. If they start playing around it’s even better as their character naturally shines through – it’s these little things that parents want to remember.

Simple portraits really are the best

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The simplest portrait photos are often the best, as is the case here. We wanted a photo that was free of any distractions, with a clear background. This means there’s nothing to distract the viewer’s attention and it lets your eye focus on the person. It’s a lovely natural expression of this young girl.

Christmas angel fancy dress

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Christmas card time, so an angel fancy dress costume worked well as the cover for some personalised family Christmas cards for this year. Children love fancy dress, as they like acting out who they’re dressed up as and on this occasion it was no exception as the ‘little angel’ loved acting as an angel.

Halloween photoshoot dressed as a witch

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As Halloween approached we did a studio portrait session while wearing a fancy dress witch’s costume. Although we did create some posed photos, we most-enjoyed the informal photos where this young girl was allowed to play with her witch’s costume and to just be herself. It gave us the opportunity for lots of cackling and role-playing that everyone enjoyed.

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